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·2023-2-5How do you ACTUALLY know that someone wants the same level of commitment as you? @thematthewhussey came on The #MelRobbinsPodcast to answer this question and give you the best relationship advice you’ve never heard. Listen to the full episode now, “ 🎧 “The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You” #linkinbio #MelRobbins #relationshipadvice #datingadvice
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·2024-7-23You ever notice how, right after a breakup, you’re the one drowning—but they look fine? They’re out with friends. Posting. Laughing. Living. Meanwhile, you’re trying to figure out how to breathe through the gut punch of losing them. You wonder, How can they move on so fast? Did I mean anything? But here’s something you need to know: there’s this thing called the Delayed Regret Effect. It’s real. And in relationships, it shows up like this: one person feels the loss immediately, and the other feels it… later. Much later. And sometimes, when it finally hits them, it hits harder. In psychology, this is tied to emotional processing styles. Research by Stroebe & Schut (1999) in their Dual Process Model of Coping with Bereavement shows that some people cope through avoidance—they distract, deny, and deflect rather than process. It’s not that they’re okay—it’s that they’re numbing. And numbing looks a lot like peace… until the silence sets in. Until there’s no more distraction. Until they realize they’ve lost someone who actually saw them. And by then? You’ve probably started to heal. See, you didn’t get the luxury of avoidance. You felt it. You sat in the pain. You wrote the journal entries, cried through the playlist, checked your phone, and had to remind yourself not to text them. You were forced to heal in real time. That’s why it hurt so much. But here’s the twist: while you were breaking, you were also rebuilding. Them? They were avoiding the rebuild. So by the time regret kicks in, they’re behind. And that regret often comes when they realize they can’t reach you the way they used to. When your energy feels different. When they feel you moving on, and it doesn’t orbit around them anymore. That’s the delayed regret. It shows up when your growth becomes visible. When you’re glowing again—not because you want them back, but because you’ve come back to yourself. A study by Brumbaugh and Fraley (2015) explored how ex-partners often experience waves of regret after their ex shows resilience or perceived improvement in quality of life. Translation? The better you get, the worse they feel—because they didn’t expect you to thrive without them. So if you’re in that space right now—hurting while they’re laughing—don’t rush to compare timelines. Healing isn’t a race. It’s a reckoning. And some people run from it for as long as they can… until the silence forces them to listen to what they lost. They may come back. They may apologize. They may suddenly realize what they threw away. But by then? You’ll be somewhere they can’t follow. Not out of spite. But because you climbed while they coasted. And when regret finally catches up to them… you won’t be where they left you. #breakup #breakups #breakupwisdom #healing #selfcare #selfrespect
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·5-3I’m an American married to a Canadian 🇨🇦🇺🇸 #canadavsusa #usavscanada #canada #usa #husbandwife #differences
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·2024-2-15Wait…Candian’s call it what? 😂 #canadavsusa #american #canadians #english #longdistancerelationship #marriage #husbandwife #differences #travel
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·2024-11-18He was not expecting that response, at all.. Carney tried to butt in multiple times, but #Trump was not having it. He told him like it is, We (the US) do not need Canada, Canada needs US. #Politics #USA #MAGA #Republican #DonaldTrump #Canada #WhiteHouse #AmericansFirst
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·5-7President Trump, "We don't do much business with Canada" PM Mark Carney, "Canada is the largest client of the United States" Trump fact-checked in real time 👏
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·5-6They immediately fly to Washington and start the negotiations to eliminate all tariffs between the two countries because the real opportunity is to combine the economies, not sell the country to America, but to get free trade going in both directions. As well as north and south and east and western Canada, where there have been a lot of barriers between provinces. It will create a behemoth economy. The Canadians have all the precious minerals, all the resources, all the energy, while the US is the largest consumer market in the world. So by combining economies, not selling sovereignty, you create a behemoth market where everybody benefits.
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·4-28Utah couple arrested, accused of smuggling oil from Mexico worth at least $300 million #caught #utah #couple #arrested #smuggling #oil #from #mexico #worth #millions
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·4-27💙AQUAMAN MOSES PAYTAS-HACMON HAS ARRIVED 💙 07.12.25 Thank you for all the well wishes and fun videos guessing his name 🥹🙏 It was so cute and made us feel so loved. Such a positive space bringing him into the world 🧸🌊
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·4d ago Seriously who are these masked strangers on the highway? 👀 #fypage #creepy #horrortok #scared
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·3d ago what do you think ? 💖💞💕🌸 #novapoolplastering #nova #pinkpool #satisfying #beforeandafter #backyardvibes #summervibes #plastering #pebble #pinkaesthetic #pink
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·4d ago Stop stealing peoples packages!! Maybe that wouldn’t have happened 😌 FT: @MacNstrapS #comedyvideo #skit #meme #ringdoorbell #ring #package
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